Making Big Decisions


“Alice came to a fork in the road. 'Which road do I take?' she asked.
'Where do you want to go?' responded the Cheshire Cat.
'I don't know,' Alice answered.
'Then,' said the Cat, 'it doesn't matter.”

A while back, I had to make a lot of big decisions, and it caused me great stress. But what I've learned is that if I educate myself, figure out what I want, study the options, and make a decision, I feel so much better than living in that limbo land of just not knowing. Make a decision, and you will be happier. 
The most stressful, painful thing is not knowing.
Not knowing what you're doing with your life. 
Not knowing where you should live. 
Not knowing where you should work.
Not knowing what you should do. 
One way or the other, and you know what you're getting into. 
But the in between is the absolute worst. 
The unknown. 
The indecision. 
Don't get stuck in that place for too long, it will ruin you. 
Don't put your energy into not knowing, it leads to worrying. 
Put it into making a decision that you believe in, it leads to hope. 

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